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11
Jan
12

A Boy Who Works… And Works Well

One of my good friends wrote a paraphrase based off of Rosemarie Urquico’s response to Charles Warnke’s ‘You Should Date an Illiterate Girl’ It was really quite well done, and I enjoyed it so much that I decided to add my own paraphrase to the mix as well.

I would encourage you to see what Grace wrote. I think you will enjoy it as much as I did and it will give a background for what I am about to write.

In the meantime, here are my Two Cents on The Quirks and Benefits of a Boy who Works… and Works Well. Two or three of these lines are courtesy of Elbert Hubbard, from A Message to Garcia, 1899. I would also encourage you to read this short essay as well. You can find the apologia here, and the full pdf here. Additionally, I used a few lines from A Real Man, which you can find here.

 

 

A Boy Who Works… And Works Well.

 

 

-His hands are strong, callused and familiar with all manner of tools.

-If he is the kind that works well, his hands also know how to gently lead in a dance and shake another’s hand with controlled power.

-He would rather do a job right, than do it at all.

-If he is the kind that works well, he knows the value of leisure with loved ones, a book or silence.

-He doesn’t look for help if he does not need it.

-If he is the kind that works well, he speaks well of his employer, thinks well of him, stands by him and stand by the institution he represents.

-If he is the kind that works well, he knows how to work in the world, without getting sucked up in its rat races.

-He understands, and is a good steward of, the incredible currency: time. (Luke 16:10-11)

-If he is the kind that works well, he whistles at his task and wears a cheerful countenance. (Col. 3:23-24)

-If he is the kind that works well, he will take a missive to anyone and not inquire as to why or how or whether or not there is any hurry.

-If he is the kind who works well, he does the right thing without being told, and if he is told, there is never a need to tell him again.

-He is not afraid of hard work, and takes every challenge with both fists.

-If he is the kind the works well, he understands the concept of work; that he does it to glorify his creator and make the life around him thrive. (Rom. 12:1-2)

-He is that absurd individual who is up before the birds are because he believes the morning is the most beautiful time of the day.

-If he is the kind that works well, he can accept criticism of his work and use it to better his next venture. (Prov. 12:1)

-If he is the kind that works well, he doesn’t try to prove himself but is simply confident as he walks in the fear of the Lord.

-He likes well-kept tools and has always aspired to drive in a nail with one blow.

-A boy who works well is loyal, devoted, creative and efficient. If you want the world and the worlds beyond it, find a boy who works. More so, find a boy who works well.

01
Jan
12

I cannot say I ran alone

Do I have an end of the year re-cap? Not quite, my time has come to be measured in semesters so I have an, “end of semester recap.” But, if you want to know what I did earlier this year, see my NCFCA Nationals and Germany posts.  Those were good times. The present is good as well. I have met some wonderful people, and I look forward to running next semester with them.  My time runs thin, so I conclude.

Looking at the late semester,
I can not help but remember,
The company with whom I spent it.

The race is not even half way run,
Though this lap is mostly done,
I can not say I ran alone.

I missed the old and loved the new,
Each challenge posed was blasted through,
Now one more mountain stands conquered.

But I can not say I ran alone

Looking at the late semester,
I can not help but remember,
The company with whom I spent it.

Thank You…

03
Dec
11

An Ode to Facial Hair

Facial Hair + Caramel Apples = No

I found that out the hard way during a Fall Fest party with my college buddies. Despite its incompatibility with caramel apples, this facial hair thing has been an interesting experience. I have learned many things…

Shel Silverstein wrote a poem on the subject…

My beard grows down to my toes,
I never wears no clothes,
I wraps my hair
Around my bare,
And down the road I goes.

Most educational…

But more importantly, I rebelled against this busy college finals schedule and I wrote you a poem to recount my epic experiences.

An Ode to Facial Hair

(Warning: The following limerick has masculine themes.)

Back in the golden days of yore,
When I was in my tweens or more,
I thought I might just look fair,
If I had some facial hair.

I declared that when I’d grown,
And my own shaving kit I did own,
I should grow a mighty mane,
One to wear without shame.

Little did I know that it would eat my face,
But this part is out of place,
So I continue.

Then came college’s first semester,
My cousin I was sure to pester,
To see if he would join the best,
In my epic hairy quest.

‘Twas September when I strategized,
To beat all fellows to the prize,
The greatest beard to be remembered,
With a lead on No-Shave-November.

Little did I know that it would eat my face,
But this part is out of place,
So I continue.

The trimmer did I learn to wield,
In time my stubble came to yield,
To the Scissors and the blade,
My face took up a different shade.

It spread to boundaries held by me,
As far as length it was quite free,
It grew out to a hue of red,
More vibrant than my well-kept head.

And then it ate my face,
This part is now in place,
So I conclude.

If you ever should desire,
Some extra flair with your attire,
Facial hair should not be done,
Lest you can grow a decent one.

Now in these college days of yore,
My facial hair, it is no more,
But now I think it would be best,
To grow a manly hairy chest!

© Nathan Exley

I have always wondered what a beard was like and… now I know. I am only slightly disappointed. Some day, when I am old and my hair migrates down (like my parents say it will) I will grow a beard that will be feared. But for now, I have had my fill.

03
Nov
11

When you wonder if it really counts

Hello again! I wish I could keep you posted more often, but college tends to prohibit that. ;(

I have a few spare minutes and I’ve got a praise on my heart:

College has been going well, or to be more exact: God is good. A verse comes to mind:

Proverbs 3:1-4
My son, do not forget my teaching, but keep my commands in your heart, for they will prolong your life many years and bring you prosperity. Let love and faithfulness never leave you; bind them around your neck, write them on the tablet of your heart. Then you will win favor and a good name in the sight of God and man.

I have a lot of Joy in my heart because of what God has been doing in my life. By God’s Grace I have found favor and a good name in the sight of God and man, as well as grown closer to Him through some trials. To all of you still in high school, or even fellow college kids, (yes, I have come to conclusion that ‘kid’ is a suitable description for our comical state of existence.) when you wonder if it really counts…

That you have (or are) devoted(ing) your life to keeping God’s word always in your heart,
That you have bound love and faithfulness around your neck,
That you have pursued the hard to reach with a commitment to do your honest best,
That you have decided to value humility and meekness more than recognition,
That you have chased after whatever GODLY BIBLICAL thing God has called you to cherish,
Then I am here to tell you this…

It counts

Oh yes it counts

My son, do not forget my teaching, but keep my commands in your heart, for they will prolong your life many years and bring you prosperity. Let love and faithfulness never leave you; bind them around your neck, write them on the tablet of your heart. Then you will win favor and a good name in the sight of God and man.

This is not a prosperity gospel. There will be some really trying times in your life, but how can those compare the knowledge and joy we can have in knowing our creator more intimately? How can those trials compare to a better understanding of the incredible future we have on earth and in heaven if and when we surrender our lives to Him?

Actions have consequences. Good actions = Good Consequences, Bad actions = etc.

When you wonder if it really counts…
That you pursued God in all those ways…

Know this,

It counts

See yall at Thanksgiving!… I think…

05
Oct
11

Prayer in a can

In college, I eat many things. Because I am living with some wonderful relatives, much of it is actually palatable and safe. I have come to especially appreciate canned goods, which are indeed a most wonderful commodity. Some things that come in cans are not good, like whole chickens, or other odd things that should never be offered for consumption… ever.

But my favorite canned good is prayer.

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I recently finished reading a book called The Prayer of the Lord, by R. C. Sproul and I heartily recommend it to anyone looking for a good read. The reason I do, is because it took what was a canned prayer for me, and made it a staple in my spiritual diet. I fell in love with The Lord’s Prayer.  Wait… didn’t it un-can it too? er… no. He gave an in depth explanation about each facet of the Lord’s prayer and its significance. Why would it need to be un-canned?

Why is it that ancient creeds, theology and prayers are more frequently reserved for Seminary students and not general use? Our modern spirituality seems to have morfed from the individualistic spirituality birthed by the early revivals, into a home made scratch recipe.  I have no problem with that, but we cannot just view the old stuff as stiff and… well… old. We have begun using the phrase ‘canned,’ “Yeah, it was a canned sermon.” Or maybe even, “well, he did the same old canned prayer.”

If something is ‘canned,’ should we disregard it? I contend not and a great example of why is in The Lord’s Prayer. We can not scrap the old elements of church history and replace them with our more ‘enlightened’ views of life. Why? Because we stand on the shoulders of giants, and to toss the church fathers’ incredible work in favor of our own recipe is rather arrogant. But, that is just a piece of what I really want to share with you. I want to show you the incredible stuff Dr. Sproul showed me; I want to give you a taste of prayer from a can.

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The Lord’s Prayer

By: Jesus Christ

Best if used right now and in a quite and secluded place.

Our Father who art in heaven,

…Reminds us that we may approach Him in a familiar way, as ‘Abba’ father. But as a completely Holy God, we must approach Him with humility, profound respect and reverence.

Hallowed be Thy name…

…In other words, “may your name be treated as sacred.” This is more of a reminder to us that God’s name must be regarded, and more so, treated respectfully. Where His name is hallowed is a place where there is a legitimate existence of the Fear of the Lord.

Thy Kingdom come, Thy Will be done on earth as it is in heaven.

…God is sovereign and His kingdom will come and His Will will be done whether we pray so or not. This section is an adamant reminder to us to focus our attention on God’s kingdom and the completion of His Will. THY will be done, not, MY will be done.

Give us this day, our daily bread…

…A reminder that we need God every day. Here, ‘bread’ means a lot more than just food.

And forgive us our debts as we forgive out debtors.

…For me, this prompts me to ask further that I might come to forgive like God does. Because in my present state, I am not eligible to be forgiven for anything! This also serves as a call to repentance. Granted, we have all ready been forgiven, but if we skip recognition of our wrongs through repenting, we begin to be less sensitive to them. We become hard hearted.

And lead us not into temptation, but deliver us from the evil one.

…God does not tempt us, but sometimes he sharpens us through trials. Trials can be deadly, heart breaking and great learning experiences. Nevertheless, it is a good idea to avoid them. the evil on is always looking for an opportunity to devour us, thus we must continually ask for protection.

For Yours is the Kingdom, Power and Glory. Amen!

…This whole prayer is essentially an incredible and vital reminder as to who is wearing the ‘pants of the family.’ What better way to cap it off, than with an acknowledgement of God’s Lordship over all?

That was prayer in a can. Yeah, there is a lot more in that tin than you thought huh? Just because something is canned doesn’t mean its less desirable or even bad. Some the most beautiful, complex and deep cries came from the ones before us, and what they spoke was in King James Version, strict, and old but it is still incredible stuff.

28
Sep
11

A Child’s Poetry

In the beginning,
I scribbled entries in a notebook,

Misspelled words, broken grammar, a child’s poetry

A month or so ago I moved to college,
I pulled that notebook out from a pile of its fellows,
And I read it…

Misspelled words, broken grammar, a child’s poetry

In our beginnings we long to mature,
Faster than our short legs will carry us,
Looking back, I am humbled by how far God has taken me from the…

 Misspelled words, broken grammar, a child’s poetry

I don’t know what to think,
This notebook records my beginnings,
Secrets, mine only to hold.

Misspelled words, broken grammar, a child’s poetry

In the beginning,
I scribbled entries in a notebook; my past stored on leaf.
Eleven years later my mature mind cannot remember,
That blessed simplicity behind…

 Misspelled words, broken grammar

a child’s poetry

30
Jun
11

NCFCA 2011 National Tournament, There and Back Again.

Last week, a few of my friends and I finished up the last National Speech and Debate tournament we would ever compete in. Words cannot explain the magnitude of this milestone, nevertheless, I will do my best to recount my trip and final thoughts on this event.

Wow.

Yes, I don’t know how to say it better. That tournament was a fitting event to cap off the best years of my life. I feel funny writing this because I have been almost looking forward to becoming a senior, moving out, etc… but it never occurred to me that I wouldn’t be competing in the NCFCA any more. Okay, maybe it did, but I never knew it would look like this. Now its here and I couldn’t have been more blessed to have it culminate in this way. Solo Deo Gloria!

There: June 7, Nathan Harris, Andrew Harris, Noah Harris, Nathan Exley, Luke Exley, Paul Exley and Mom Exley packed into our seven seat, thoroughly homeschooler, minivan. I didn’t realize it till about half way through the trip, but we, in a way, resembled The Grapes of Wrath chugging across the country with our rocket box on top and our trunk flooded with luggage to the rear window. We were snug and Nathan Harris mused that we were like a sardine can on wheels, it certainly felt like it. Except, I don’t think sardines have as much fun as we did.

We also stopped by the Great Smokey Mountain National Park

I can’t remember all the places we stayed, but the host houses were definitely my favorite. The first one that comes to mind was a large home school family in the woods of Virginia. They had a beautiful house and they made almost all of their own food. The milk and bacon we had for breakfast were from their own animals and the night before, they made ice cream. It was home-made vanilla. Using milk from their own cow. Need I say more? It was delicious.

 

 

These Hills - Trees = Shire?

In the morning, we left the Potter’s house and hiked a piece of the Appalachian trail. The meadows on the mountainside looked like places you would sing ‘The Sound of Music’ in. We bumped into a friendly lady who offered to take us on a tour of the trail and turned out to be a fun guide.  If it weren’t for all the trees, the rolling hills would resemble The Shire from Lord of the Rings. At the top of the ridge, still cloaked in dense forest, we stopped and practiced a few speeches for our guide and a passing hiker. I found it amusing and random that someone should stumble upon a bunch of teens giving speeches in the middle of the Appalachian wilderness.We are, indeed, homeschoolers.

Treebeard, Hiking from Georgia to Maine

The hiker who dropped in to watch, had been on the trail since late March and had over 900 miles under his belt. He had a full beard, a distinct scent and a very pleasant personality. For hikers who hike the Appalachian trail for an extended period of time, it is customary to have a trail name. Our friendly hiker went by Treebeard. We returned to the Potter’s house after saying good bye to Treebeard, hiking back down the mountain and bidding our wonderful guide farewell.

Splitting logs at the Potters...

My highlight was when we helped the Potters clear some of their property. It was overcast and a storm was coming over the mountain. Regardless, Nathan and I split wood with an electric log splitter (I liked that toy a lot) and continued until it began to rain too hard. By that time, we were soaked to the skin and, after grabbing our things, we ran to the shelter of their barn to watch it pour. I love rain. This was the kind of rain that frequented their area often, but we soaked it up like Texas dirt.

On the Ferry to Ellis Island

I think the last host house we stayed at, before we reached nationals, was the Liu’s house. They were a speech and debate family who were going to Nationals as well. The best part was the music. They all played instruments and were into film projects. Thus, both Nathan’s were pretty tickled.

Our trip to the Statue of Liberty

On check in day we registered and joined Grace Einkauf, Alison Luis, Maddie Clay and Julia Rosenberger to tour Boston (please pardon the butchered names).  We walked the decks of the USS Constitution, had some Clam Chowda and an all around fantastic time.

Off to the side was a man playing some Jaz instrument, he let us push its buttons. Cool Stuff.

We Blew BIG Bubbles in Boston... Say it fast ten times. :)

Grace's 'Dr. Seuss Flowers.'

Boston Tour Crew

A Old Graveyard stuffed full of history. People were just dying to get in there... pun intended.

Poetry splurge

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Nationals: Gordon College was clad in sweeping greens, aged pine trees and neatly crossed by well kept sidewalks. It bore a scholarly/educated feeling, which was enhanced by its almost royal lawns. The four day tournament was exhausting, but certainly an appropriate way to end four years of competitive speaking. We played the guitar, on sidewalk benches, and sat enraptured, listening to Grace sing with Master Owen Stroud accompanying on the piano. We had a communal poem writing splurge and I sat and mused under a particularly noble looking pine on the green. At some point on our trip up, Nathan Harris got sick and the poor guy spent Nationals in a fairly less pleasant state.

 

 

 

 

 

 

I had a lot of time to sit and think at this tournament. There was much to reflect about and Gordon had an atmosphere for thinking. I was going to miss all of my friends with a passion that wasn’t going to be satiated by the condolence that I could always come back and judge as an alumni. It just won’t be the same as competing. I guess one could describe my thoughts as sad, but at the same, they were splattered with joy at a past worth cherishing and a future bursting with potential.

The Grin Crew

Region four did pretty well. We didn’t dominate, like we did last year, but our own Beth Maisano did an incredible job and snagged sixth place in sweepstakes; winning second in several events. Grace Einkauf did masterfully in Thematic Interpretation and Nathan Harris made his mark in Illustrated Oratory. (to find specific rankings check out the NCFCA website.) I broke to quarter finals in apologetics and duo, and Paul broke in Thematic Interpretation, Duo,  and a few others which I can’t recall. We had a Region IV ballot party complete with popcorn, pizza, singing lamas, tired debaters, very vocal speakers, some random college guy who came in and tried to start a dance party (he must not have known that we were homeschoolers ;) ), and… yeah. Fun stuff. These are the things that make the most colorful memories.

And Back Again: Saying ‘see ya later’ is much easier that saying ‘good bye’. When we parted ways after the National tournament, it was tough. We might see each other again, but not for a long time and  with no guarantees. From a seniors perspective, this was letting go of friends that had been a huge part of life for at least four years.

Evidence of a past much cherished

Thus, the fellowship of the Speakers came to an end and we each went our separate ways.

The trip back was just as eventful as the trip up. First, we drove farther north, all the way to Maine, where we stayed with a relative of the Harris’. Maine is as post card perfect as they say, but if you live there during the winter, you see the other more prominent side of it. Apparently snow get boring.  We ate out that night at a marina. Nathan had his first dose of Maine Clam Chowder, I had a Lobster Roll (delectable) and Andrew had a Crab Roll (also delectable). The food was excellent all around. Afterwards we walked over the kelp carpeted peninsula on which the Marina sat. We skipped rocks, found a monstrous crab (the size of my palm, and I have big hands) and picked up snail shells while marveling at the sun as it set behind sailboats and Pine covered islands. I have always wanted to see the physical scenery that painters find their inspiration in, but it was startling to finally see it in person. It gives one reason to stop and stare.

Next stop was the foothills of the Adirondacks in New York. This host house was also a homeschool family and was perched in the rolling green forests of the Adirondacks and the Catskills. This was like the places only found in lore. We followed a mountain stream to a mossy waterfall and beyond. I took my shoes off and walked in the water the whole way up and then a good part of the way back. The forest was quiet and the pine needles on the ground tenderly embraced my bare feet. You could hear the water, the birds, and when we came out onto meadows you could smell the wild Oregano. I had this recognition when I accidentally sat in the herb while putting on my shoes. Nathan, Mom and I were all walking together because the others had raced ahead and left us behind, which was kind of nice because it was quiet and undisturbed. The sun setting behind the trees sent shafts of light that crossed our path and flickered on our faces.

The kind of fertile mossy nooks in which one grows fairy tales

That evening, we sat around a fire with the Panzera family in their backyard. Their old red barn was our backdrop and the landscape around us looked like the frozen waves of a raging sea, overgrown with neatly cut lush green grass. We sang praise songs, ate Smores and looked up at the incredible tapestry of night sky. When we stepped away from the fire, the stars shone brighter and we had quite a display. Their view of the galaxy even rivaled the view I’ve seen in far West Texas.

We also Dropped by Niagra Falls. It was good weather for it, but I was sick and rather miserable.

Then there were the fireflies. These almost deserve their own post. The Fireflies in the foothills of the Adirondacks aren’t like the ones we have, or the ones in Pennsylvania. They flash like lighting, sporadically leaving you a trail of dots to connect in the dusk. If you can connect them fast enough, you might catch one. All together, with the rolling lawn sprawled out before us, the old barn silently keeping watch in the background, all of it lit by a dying fire and joyous lightning bugs, it caused me to marvel, giving me an excuse to stay up later than I like, just to wander the darkness.

About this time I got sick with what Nathan H. had, and we suffered together.

Next stop was my great Aunts house. Aunt Dorothy lived in Pennsylvania on a few acres that were thrillingly like the Panzera’s. She had a crystal clear pond splashing with fish (specifically a large bass that always lingered tantalizingly near the bank) and as soon as we finished unloading, her son pulled out some old fishing poles and tackle boxes, dusted them off, and handed them over. We had to rig the poles without the convenience of reels; tying them the old fashioned way with a fixed length of string. The evening faded as we fished, dug for worms, kissed catches and yelled at the more obstinate ones that took our bate and didn’t oblige. Andrew Harris caught the trophy bass we were all drooling over, but his string broke before he could get it in. I caught it early the next morning (ha ha!) and… It was delicious. I managed to get out Andrew’s lost lure and I named it Jonah.

The Fireflies there were lazy. Rather than a bright white strobe, they had a drowsy yellow throbbing light. I don’t blame them. The air there was heavy with the scent of flowers and something refreshing and clean that I couldn’t place.

The rest of the places we stayed in were hotels, but the car drives remain pressed into my memory. Driving through the rolling hills of New York into Ohio and on, we glimpsed the classic red barns and ancient cabins not yet retired. The hay bales sat on the ridges of hills, wrapped in white plastic, looking like giant marshmallows or teeth.

At Arkansas, we gave the waitress at Olive Garden a hard time, asking how to pronounce Arkansas (she took it well and returned the jest.) We also went crystal mining and Noah found his moneys worth. We did find other dazzling, but a little less spectacular than Noah’s, crystals and we came away satisfied as well.

Finally, we reached home, sucked in the Texas heat with an appreciation that would soon wither and spent the rest of our day resting. By that time Andrew, Luke, Nathan and I were all sick and were ready for a rest.

What I have told you is only what we saw. What we experienced is for another post. I came back content, at peace and I sit here now with excitement for the future. I may not see some of those treasured friends again, I regret that, but I have witnessed the rising of a generation. Not a Moses generation, but a Joshua generation. This is not the end, it is only the beginning.

~Your Brother in Training, Nathan E.

Credits: All photos were graciously provided by Pastor Hullum, Nathan Harris, Owen Stroud and Grace Einkauf. They were used with permission. Thank you Pastor Hullum, Grace, Owen and Nathan for allowing me to display your artwork. It has described what my words could not.

10
Apr
11

God vs. Tiger Woods

The Golf ball was sitting right at the edge of the green with the hole up ahead, just a puts-worth away. Tiger Woods was scoping it out, looking at the slope, testing other factors, and we’re wondering, “what are you waiting for? The cup is right there.” He backs up to the ball, gives a few test swings, and then aims. “What is he thinking! The hole is over there! He is putting the wrong direction.” He puts. We watch. Just like we thought, the ball goes off on a tangent, “what was he thinking?”

Then it turns.

It turns more, turns again, and again, and again, ‘till it is sitting at the edge of the cup. We are already stunned, but now we are holding our breath. The ball sits there for a second, the little Nike swoosh peaking out from under it…

And it falls in… The crowd goes wild.

Is God a better Putter than Tiger Woods?

Obviously yes, so what?

Here’s what. If He is a better than Tiger Woods, than why don’t we trust Him more? Why don’t I trust Him more? In life, we want that dream job, we strive for the perfect family, perfect grades, you name it. That is our hole, its right over there, just a putts-worth away. God comes up, gives a few test swings, and then aims. We see where He is about to putt us and we argue. “The hole is over there and you’re putting me that-a-way. God, what are you thinking?! The holes right there!” We stress out because He is not leading us toward our goal. God Putts us off on a tangent (just like we though He would), and then He turns us, more and more till we make a full circuit, and are left sitting at the edge of the hole (or the actual one we were supposed to go for in the first place) staring in, holding our breath… and then we’re in. If God is a better putter than Tiger Woods, why don’t we trust that He will get us into that hole?

I am working through a tough time right now. God is putting me away from something I value very much. It seems to have so much potential, and the only way I see it coming true is if I get to it… right now. But God is putting me a different direction. Initially, His moving hurt. I was pretty discouraged, and I was struggling to find a way to hang on to some fragment of it, so that way I could be sure to come back to it later. Nope, I had to drop it. I found condolence in this verse…

Mat 6:33 But seek first his kingdom and his righteousness, and all these things will be given to you as well.

I was still having a hard time trusting that God would add to me something better than the goal I saw right then. It didn’t look like there was anything better than that out there.

This morning, I went to a friends church with an awesome buddy of mine (you know who you are). We got to the community center where our church friends met, and found out that they had canceled service because everyone had gotten food poisoning and was at home sick. Well, conveniently located across the street was a nice little church and we decided to go to that instead. Guess what the sermon was about. Trust. The pastor used the Tiger Woods example I just opened with. God had that appointed for me, the sermon and our arrival was not a coincidence.

Phl 4:6 “Do not be anxious about anything, but in everything, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God. And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus.”

I have peace now. I am off on that tangent, but God is using it to work on my character and some other stuff. Talk about peace. My God is a better putter than Tiger Woods and I don’t have to worry about tomorrow, so tomorrow will just have to worry about itself.

05
Mar
11

the unbiblical defense of marriage

I had a challenge recently to write an essay that supported the defense of marriage act. The catch, was that I wasn’t allowed to reference or use the Bible. Thus, I researched the topic, got some great sources, ran it by my parents, and then redid it… at least four times. This is the secular explanation of the “New Deal” that could devastate our nation, all in 450 words. May it provide food for thought, and insight into a hot topic.

What the government says has a significant effect on what society practices and accepts. Take for example the social stimulant “New Deal” policies set in place by FDR, during the Great Depression. After the depression, this legislation remained and encouraged the socialistic mindset that many Americans have today; the government is supposed to take care of us. When a Government officially accepts a policy, it gradually and subtly changes the mindset of its citizens. It is for this same reason that, if the government were to normalize gay marriage, traditional marriage would slowly slip into disuse.1 This constitutes the reason why I stand with the Defense of Marriage Act – the bill that defines marriage as the union of one man and one woman. To redefine marriage in another way would put an extra tax burden on our society, and officially accept an inherently destructive activity.

From a secular point of view, the immediate detrimental results of redefining marriage would be higher taxes, due to newly recognized couples claiming Social Security Benefits, Employment Benefits, Medical Benefits (especially from STDs and AIDs), Death Benefits, Family Benefits, Housing Benefits, Government benefits, Consumer Benefits, and other legal benefits and protections.2 The outcome of this is in an unfair tax burden on the general public.3 Perfectly capable individuals would exploit the privilege of marriage to get tax benefits which were originally meant for procreating families.

The effects of officially redefining marriage are much more than just higher taxes. The Government redefining marriage in favor of homosexuals would officially and effectively stamp this inherently destructive activity as an acceptable practice. Homosexuality destroys family. This is the chief disadvantage of approving this behavior. In his book, The Future of Marriage, David Blankenhorn writes, “One can believe in same-sex marriage. One can believe that every child deserves a mother and a father. One cannot believe both.”3 The second most important disadvantage tied to approving homosexuality, is the spread of disease. Homosexuality is the chief conduit for AIDS, other STDs, colon and rectal cancer, and hepatitis.4 If homosexuality becomes the norm, the spread of these deadly diseases will be furthered. Homosexual marriages do not facilitate healthy families.

Africa has its orphans multiplying and dying like flies in its streets from STDs and AIDs. Both of which are transmitted by the very behavior homosexuals want us to acknowledge. Higher taxes are not the biggest disadvantage; it is the destruction of the family and increased infection of fatal diseases through official acceptance of destructive behavior. The Defense of Marriage Act must be defended, because just like FDR’s New Deal, if homosexuality is officially accepted it will become a prominent mindset and practice; especially with the tax benefits tied to it.

Source Cited

1. Frank Turek. “Same Sex Marriage Countries.” Love – AllAboutLove.org. Web. 10 Feb. 2011. <http://www.allaboutlove.org/same-sex-marriage-countries.htm>.

2. “Marriage Rights and Benefits – Free Legal Information – Nolo.” Lawyers, Legal Forms, Law Books & Software, Free Information – Nolo. NOLO Law for ALL. Web. 10 Feb. 2011. <http://www.nolo.com/legal-encyclopedia/marriage-rights-benefits-30190.html>.

3. David Blankenhorn, The Future of Marriage, (New York, Encounter Books), 2007, pg. 201.

4. Turek, Frank. “Homosexual Behavior.” Love – AllAboutLove.org. Web. 10 Feb. 2011. <http://www.allaboutlove.org/homosexual-behavior.htm>.

25
Jan
11

Cry

I love to worship. I don’t see anything wrong with music on other subjects, but my voracious thirst for music always gravitates toward praise. I think I may have found out why.

Sometimes life is a bed of roses. I can see those glowing aspirations high up on their stems, but for the life of me, I can not reach them because I am stuck on all their  thorns, struggling to get off the dirt. Sometimes we can’t even see the roses, just the thorns.

It is in times like these that I get bogged down. Has your soul ever felt so heavy, yet empty?

It is not something that is outwardly visible either. Sometimes you can just be a “living dead.”

Tired mind, troubled heart, but Thorns have Roses. Stop looking at the thorns.

I collapse on to my been bag, and just sit still, letting my head role back, not realizing that it is going to meet the bunk bed momentarily. “bonk”. I remember now.

Moments pass with my eyes closed. I can still see the negative replica of the computer screen on the inside of my eyelids.

wait a minute… spare moments? Eyes pop open and I reach for my guitar.

As I think about those moments right now, my emotional  expression is ecstatic. But during those times it was simply a tired mind, troubled heart, and aching soul. That is…. until I began to play.

Music sings the words of the soul, because words alone cannot describe it. When music becomes praise, then aching things begin to flow, find rest, and God listens, refills, and mends.

I have tried it. Other songs are still fun to play and relaxing, but worship has a whole different element.

It has…

a Hallelujah,

a Holy, Holy, Holy

a Glory

that I haven’t found any where else

Have you ever noticed that? Other songs are either complaining, telling a story, longing, cursing, amusing, entertaining, laughing… But there is a special section for praise and worship, and I love it.

I love it because

It

Lets

My

Soul

Cry

Not whine, or complain, or curse, or entertain. It lets my soul Cry.

We were meant to praise to Him. And when we are in troubled times, the most refreshing thing to do is to come to Him and sing His praises. It takes the focus off ourselves and creates a conduit for God to start mending those aching hearts, tired minds, and troubled souls that are now at His feet.

It bears a greater significance than simply recharging me, but I can’t describe it. I do know it is there, because the few times that I have cried were during worship. I broke down in the middle of a church worships service because the outflow and mending of hurts was overpowering.

But I couldn’t explain it to you.

But I do know that it has a trigger

and that trigger is…

a Hallelujah

a Holy, Holy, Holy

a Glory

Have you ever thought of worship from the outside looking in? I never new what it was like till I watched a recording, and I was amazed. God loves our worship, our praise to Him, and He makes that blatantly clear in His word. But now I have a faint idea of what he sees, and I am humbled.

This is why I am love to worship.

Troubled souls find peace

Aching hearts find healing

Tired minds rest

Cry




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